The Truth About Confidence (It's Not What You Think)

If you've ever looked at someone and thought, Wow, she's so confident. I wish I had that, you're not alone.

We're often led to believe that confidence is something we're either born with or not - like a personality trait some people just have. But that's not how confidence actually works.

Confidence isn't about never feeling doubt. It's about moving forward despite it.

Think about a time when you had to step into something new - maybe after a big life change, a tough decision, or even just speaking up when it felt uncomfortable. Did you feel confident before doing it? Probably not.

But after? That's when confidence showed up.

Confidence is built through action, not the other way around. The mistake we often make is waiting until we feel ready before we take the leap. But in reality, confidence grows because we take the leap.

So let me ask you:

When was a time you felt truly confident? Maybe it was a moment of bravery, a small decision that made you feel strong, or a time when you trusted yourself fully.

I'd love to hear your story - share in the comments or send me an email to denise@denisestyer.com
 

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